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I just Certified as a Cuddlest, CUDDLESTA So many people don't get touched, or hugged or cuddled. Wouldn't it be nice to be SPOONED or STARFISHED,or HELD. Watch a movie or just talk. Read? Hang out and get hugged? As Children we get hugged as an adult people seem to stop hugging unless it's a greeting and during Covid it stopped. THIS IS ABOUT CARING, and sharing things in this day and age age that are taking a backseat. I'm a great conversationalist... THIS IS NOT A SEX THING, I will be in yoga wear, you may wear a tank top and shorts. FEES: 30mins is $50, 1hr is $75, 90mins $100, 2hrs $150 Ask for Cherylanne 347-293-3421 The best cuddling positions 1. Spooning Are you a hugger? You are now. Spooning is the classic cuddle, with 31% of couples opting to nestle together like a set of flatware. If you’re not aware, spooning takes place when lying down, with both people on their sides, facing the same way. The Big Spoon envelops the Little Spoon in a bear hug, tucking knees behind the little spoon’s knees. It’s a chance to be held or hold someone close and let life slow down for a minute. Pros and cons: Boehm says “spooning is optimal cuddling because being in touch with more of your body provides more comfort.” But that closeness can make it difficult for the Little Spoon to extricate themselves from an embrace when the Big Spoon starts snoring. 2. The Sweetheart, or The Rom-Com This is the real fit check, where one partner lays their head on the other’s chest. Then, the other partner wraps an arm around them like the safety bar coming down on a roller coaster to lock you in place. Pros and cons: “It’s a nice cuddle. You can hear someone’s heart,” says Jaime Bronstein, a licensed therapist and relationship expert. “It subconsciously brings you back to your childhood and hearing a heartbeat.” But this snuggle can be like huddling for warmth, leaving one or both of you too hot to sleep. 3. The Mirror Pros and cons: This cuddle lets you and your partner move freely without waking the other person. Similar to a sleep divorce, yet it is approaching the boundaries of what we would call a cuddle because it’s all too easy for the space between you to grow. 4. The Pretzel Pros and cons: The reassuring pressure of your partner’s leg or foot can have a calming influence; however, keeping your legs entwined can lead to leg cramps at night, which can make it hard to stay asleep. 5. The Face-to-Face Embrace There are no chaperones for cuddling. And 2% of couples take full advantage, cuddling (and then sleeping) in a sideways hug, as close as 8th graders wish they could be at a junior high semiformal. Pros and cons: Your partner is front-and-center and all of your attention is focused on them, but Boehm notes that this “may not be ideal because the mechanics of the body can make it hard for both people to be comfortable.” 6. Take a Lap This one is a real snuggle attack. While your partner is lounging on the couch, sit next to them sideways. Lay your head on their shoulder and then pour as much of your body over their lap as possible. They’ll never see the hugs coming. Pros and cons: A nice way for partners of different physical sizes to be close. Your partner can throw an arm around your shoulder. You can hop in their lap. But it can lead to arms or legs falling asleep before you do.